Katya,
Very interesting topic and I agree that the Donor-Fundraiser Relationship will never be the same.  It amazes me how quickly this change has come about and makes you wonder what the next 5-10 years has in store.  I wrote a blog post recently that you might find interesting around the future of philanthropy:  http://www.stratuslive.com/Fundraising-Futurist/bid/30309/The-Future-of-Philanthropy